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This Weekend in 2013

I sit in a basement office space in a community center in Boulder, just having completed a session with a coaching client and preparing for a weekend workshop I will be co-leading. The community center is called The Integral Center. The workshop is the fifth weekend in a series of six to teach and train […]

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Authentic World Circling Training – Malibu!

Join us in an intimate Authentic Relating Intensive at a private yoga retreat in a beautiful natural setting in the hills above Malibu. You won’t want to miss our first ever live event in Southern California with Decker and the Authentic World facilitation crew! Come experience profoundly rewarding connections with us on January 27-29, 2012. […]

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Profoundly Rewarding Relationships

Whether experiencing connections full of love and joy, or navigating challenging interactions, if you’re like me, you’ve found relating with other people one of the most dynamic areas of life.  At its most rewarding, we may experience moments like: A loved one’s eyes light up with gratitude for finally feeling appreciated for their uniquely personal […]

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When Knowledge isn’t Power

I love that sweet feeling of a fresh new insight.  For example, after a challenging period of self reflection, I came to realize that underlying my “Nice Guy” persona was really a sense of loneliness and a desperate attempt to try and get people to like me.  After facing this with a radical sense of […]

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Self-criticism to Clear Motivation in 3 easy steps

As I was working at creating clear positive intentions towards making a meaningful contribution to the health and growth of others through my coaching business, some negative thoughts started popping up, for example, “I’m not really getting better at all of this, I’m just a hypocrite, a phony, a fake, a poser.”  Here is how […]

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From my Self-Distraction, with Love

One of the things I have been experiencing is self-distraction. What a crazy concept! I mean, I’m the one who wants to go one way, so who is this other person inside myself that is distracting me? Wait that can’t be so, it must be something else – out there distracting me. Yeah, that’s it […]

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On Track With Your Resolutions

Yes, I’ve done it before too – getting back on-track at the start of a new year, making resolutions, recommitting myself to my happiness, success, and well-being. And I know what it is like to get off-track, then back on-track again, and back, and forth. It seems that this cycle is a natural part of […]

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The Taskmaster & the Rebel

Growing up, I was a good boy.  I earned good grades and acknowledgment from parents and teachers and I enjoyed that.  Eventually I became tired of always doing what I was supposed to do even if it was enjoyable and rewarding.  More importantly, I wanted to make the choices about what I valued and believed […]

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